WE CARE!!

2004-04-06 [Kelaria]: I have sooo much love to spread around!!! ^-^

2004-04-06 [I am The Monkey]: hey girly u know me leme join it to:-D

2004-04-06 [Kelaria]: ^^ please do!

2004-04-12 [mywolfalways]: We care like "Carebears"?

2004-04-12 [Kelaria]: *shudder* um... I dont know... they scare me...

2004-04-12 [mywolfalways]: LOL

2004-04-12 [Kelaria]: I started this wiki page to help others... but now I'm the one who needs help...

2004-04-13 [mywolfalways]: *hugs [Kelaria]*

2004-05-02 [Kelaria]: *hugs back* thanks... we need more members here

2004-05-02 [Faelover]: the first thing i thought when i saw 'we care' was the carebears- funny- my roommate last year and I regressed many years and we both went on a carebear kick bought the movies when they came out- we were like little kids- good times :-)

2004-05-02 [Kelaria]: hehe ^^ that's great! gotta have some of that kind of fun every now and then! :)

2004-05-02 [mywolfalways]: I bought the Carebear Movies when they came out too! A nice joke in my household is in a chanting way saying: "We care, we all care!" ^__^

2004-05-02 [Kelaria]: hahaha :P ^^

2004-05-02 [Faelover]: I bet i came home from college with one of the carebear dvds and my dad just had this really confused look on his face- hilarious

2004-05-02 [Kelaria]: *grin*

2004-05-02 [Faelover]: the best part was when he came home from work and saw me watching it though- i had just had surgery and the doc said i should watch happy movies cause i'd get weepy and such after surgery so the only really happy movie i had was carebears

2004-05-02 [Faelover]: what really shocked my dad though was when i told him to be quiet so i could hear the 'we care' chant-lol

2004-05-02 [Kelaria]: HAHA!!! I had a 7th grade history teacher who was terrified of the carebears!! He was sooo scared of the carebear stare!! It was hilarious!

2004-05-02 [Faelover]: hahaha

2004-05-02 [Kelaria]: *grin*

2004-05-02 [Faelover]: he told you he was scared to death of carebears? how did that topic come up?

2004-05-02 [Kelaria]: he was quite a jokester, I'm not sure how the topic came up, but I also know that he's afraid of the song called the Elusive Butterfly *grin*

2004-05-02 [Faelover]: lol- he must have been quite a character ;-)

2004-05-02 [Kelaria]: yep he was ^^ and his name is Jeff Fishbein! we called him Mr. Fish *grin* or Fishy ...lol!

2004-05-02 [Faelover]: let me guess - he was your favorite teacher too?

2004-05-02 [Kelaria]: haha! Yep! :)

2004-05-02 [Faelover]: question- what's better friends or a significant other?

2004-05-02 [Kelaria]: well, me and my best friend have always believed that your bf could leave you and break your heart, but friends are there forever

2004-05-02 [Kelaria]: Friends are Forever... and if your bf truly loves you he will respect and understand that

2004-05-02 [Kelaria]: that's what she and I believe anyway

2004-05-02 [Faelover]: Good Answer- i just started a union- called friends are better dump your significant other- you should join-lol

2004-05-02 [Kelaria]: lol, nah, cause my so respects my friendship with my best friend ^^ no dumping needed :)

2004-05-02 [Faelover]: lol- only requirements are that you are single and think friends are better...lol

2004-05-02 [Kelaria]: well I'm not single... O.o

2004-05-02 [Faelover]: OOooo *shakes head* another good person bites the dust- lol

2004-05-02 [Kelaria]: *blinks sadly* love is never wrong... if it's true love...

2004-05-02 [Faelover]: just messing... im happy your happy...but if he turns out to be a jerk come join  old sig. other bashing is what we do- lol

2004-05-02 [Kelaria]: heh.. yep! ^^ I surely will! :)

2004-05-02 [Faelover]: glad to hear it ;-)

2004-05-02 [Kelaria]: hehe

2004-05-02 [Faelover]: and hey we could always let you join as a probationary member lol

2004-05-02 [Kelaria]: lol

2004-05-07 [Kelaria]: I need help...

2004-05-07 [Faelover]: help with what?

2004-05-07 [Kelaria]: what's the link to that wiki again?

2004-05-07 [Faelover]: oh friends are better... dump your significant other

2004-05-07 [Kelaria]: thanks

2004-05-07 [Faelover]: no prob ;-)

2004-05-07 [Faelover]: hey u know a lot about creating wikis and all that right?

2004-05-07 [Kelaria]: sort of, i guess

2004-05-07 [Faelover]: wanna be vp? i was saving it for someone who joined and could help out if i didn't know how to do something and be a creative co-creator

2004-05-07 [Kelaria]: but what if I get a SO?

2004-05-07 [Faelover]: still vp just pm 2

2004-05-07 [Kelaria]: hmm?

2004-05-07 [Faelover]: pm=probationary member

2004-05-07 [Kelaria]: ahhh, I see ^^ alrighty!

2004-05-07 [Faelover]: ok then ill put u up as vp

2004-05-07 [Kelaria]: cool ^^

2004-05-07 [Faelover]: hey you know good artists we should ask for banner submissions?

2004-05-07 [Kelaria]: hmm... I'll see who I can round up

2004-05-07 [Faelover]: cool thanks ;-)

2004-05-12 [Kelaria]: ...we need more members...

2004-05-15 [Kelaria]: welcome star warrior!

2004-05-16 [dwb_bilbo]: Hello all. So when people have problems we're here to help them?

2004-05-16 [Kelaria]: you betcha!! even people on the members list need help with problems :) we are all here to care ^^

2004-05-16 [dwb_bilbo]: Sounds great

2004-05-16 [Kelaria]: yep! I for one have lots of sad times :(

2004-05-16 [dwb_bilbo]: Well, I am currently excited mostly. My wife and son are going to be in L.A. Thursday and we are going to go to Disneyland and Medieval Times. I haven't seen them since early March.

2004-05-16 [Kelaria]: Fun! that's wonderful :) *sigh* my boyfriend is in the navy and it's so hard :( :(

2004-05-16 [dwb_bilbo]: Where is he stationed?

2004-05-16 [Kelaria]: right now? pensacola Florida... but he was in South Carolina for a while...

2004-05-16 [dwb_bilbo]: Is he still in school?

2004-05-16 [Kelaria]: yeah, but i think only for a little while longer..

2004-05-16 [dwb_bilbo]: OMG, I'm soooo hungry.

2004-05-16 [dwb_bilbo]: Cool. I think I asked him what his Rate was going to be but he hasnt answered yet.

2004-05-16 [Kelaria]: what? I'm confused

2004-05-16 [dwb_bilbo]: Is he on elftown?

2004-05-16 [Kelaria]: yeah

2004-05-16 [dwb_bilbo]: is his name [Project Elysium]?

2004-05-16 [Kelaria]: yep

2004-05-16 [dwb_bilbo]: Yeah I asked him

2004-05-16 [Kelaria]: oh, that's cool

2004-05-16 [dwb_bilbo]: I was in Pensacola for my school.

2004-05-16 [Kelaria]: oh cool... he was just moved down there like, a few weeks ago...

2004-05-16 [dwb_bilbo]: Do you know what he is going to do?

2004-05-16 [Kelaria]: *sigh* not really...

2004-05-16 [dwb_bilbo]: Are you going to go visit him sometime soon?

2004-05-16 [Kelaria]: i dont know... my parents wont let me :(

2004-05-16 [dwb_bilbo]: yeah, hes 20somethin aint he?

2004-05-16 [Kelaria]: yep

2004-05-17 [dwb_bilbo]: Your parents probably dont like the age difference, right?

2004-05-17 [Kelaria]: no, they dont mind... well my mom doesnt at least... it's just that he lied to me... he told me he was in college at the College of Charleston... and then he kept the lie going for months, building on it... honestly? I dont know why I'm still with him... he causes me so much damn pain! I love him, yes, but every time I forgive him he just ends up hurting me again! and not even on purpose!!

2004-05-17 [dwb_bilbo]: well, guys do that. I couldnt make a distance relationship last while I was in P'cola. I really cared about her too, its just so far. now I'm married and have a son, so the distance isn't as hard because I know we'll ALWAYS be there for each other, whereas with a bf/gf relationship, no guarantees. No matter how much you say there is a strong commitment, there isn't.

2004-05-17 [Kelaria]: Yes, but this has affected my whole life! I'm falling very behind in school and I dont even really care about school anymore... I used to care so much... and also I physically mutilate myself every time I feel depressed...

2004-05-17 [dwb_bilbo]: Ok, I'm playing to be funny but, why would you hurt yourself with all those cats around that you could hurt instead. Ok, end joke. Not funny. But I think you are a pretty girl and need to always remember that in order to TRULY be able to love someone and care about them, you have to be number one. Your life and future have to be secure in your heart and mind to feel secure with someone else. Know that you always have people to care for you and be there to talk to. I don't even know what this guy does to hurt you but it cant be good.

2004-05-17 [Kelaria]: He's a good person... but he just... I dont know... the problem is... I get really depressed when I cant talk to him... unless I know where he is and what he's doing and when he'll be back...

2004-05-17 [dwb_bilbo]: Yeah. I know how you feel. My wife and I got Nextel Direct Connect, so we can page each other and talk all the time. It is quite a boon. Without it I'm sure thee would be much more hostility. When I get to Japan we are going to have Webcam conversations and that should be good.

2004-05-17 [Kelaria]: *nods* I'm happy for you, you are truly blessed...

2004-05-17 [dwb_bilbo]: Communication is the most important part of a relationship. Tell him that the lack of communication really depresses you and maybe you guys should do something to remedy it. Like the phones we got. I don't know what your options are but I'm just throwing out ideas.

2004-05-17 [Kelaria]: yeah... the problem is we both dont have much money... especially since, trying to communicate, we ran up our cell phone bills quite a lot last month :(

2004-05-17 [dwb_bilbo]: Cell phones tend to do that.

2004-05-17 [dwb_bilbo]: Do you both have a computer?

2004-05-17 [Kelaria]: I have one, but his isnt hooked up to the internet down there, so he can only get on at the library... which isnt very often...

2004-05-17 [dwb_bilbo]: That would help the situation a bit. Free communication. How long will he be there?

2004-05-17 [Kelaria]: *sigh* I dont know...

2004-05-17 [dwb_bilbo]: You sound like you could use a hug. *gives Kelaria an friendly hug*

2004-05-17 [Kelaria]: *starts to cry* I cant take it anymore! I cant do this! It's destroying me and everything in my life!! He promised he would call me today... but he didnt... I have called him about 1000 times and he wont answer.... there isnt even anyone else I could call to find out what's going on! I'm helpless to do anything!!!

2004-05-17 [dwb_bilbo]: Hey, it's okay. Relax and breathe and count to ten. I know it sounds stupid but do it for a new friend, okay? Do you want to talk?

2004-05-17 [Kelaria]: I dont know what else to say...

2004-05-17 [dwb_bilbo]: I mean like call me or something.

2004-05-17 [Kelaria]: I'm not sure... I just wish he'd pick up his phone :(

2004-05-17 [Kelaria]: by the way, I just have to say that your son is gorgeous... he is so cute!! I watch those discovery health programs about babies being born whenever I can ^^ it's so cute! I love it :)

2004-05-17 [dwb_bilbo]: I'm sorry that I cant do anything to make you feel better. Check out http://www.fm949sd.com and click the listen live stream. They play awesome music.

2004-05-18 [Kelaria]: hey, you're here for me! that's all that matters!

2004-05-18 [Kelaria]: That is what this wiki is all about... being here for each other...

2004-05-18 [dwb_bilbo]: I will always try to be here for anyone who needs it.

2004-05-18 [Kelaria]: good :)

2004-12-16 [belgarion_77]: how do i talk to people about my problems

2004-12-16 [belgarion_77]: how do i talk to someone about problems?

2004-12-16 [Kelaria]: here in the comment box!

2004-12-16 [Kelaria]: or, if you prefer, you may message one of the members in a private message.

2004-12-16 [Kelaria]: I think I'm going to set up a private room where the usernames are not shown in the comment box.

2004-12-16 [Kelaria]: there! all set! We Care!! - Private Room!

2005-06-03 [Wild Rose]: hmm it's hard to just start talking about a problem ur having

2005-06-03 [Kelaria]: yeah. but that's why the private room helps people feel they can talk.